A Nigerian lady has gone viral after posting a strange video that a man sent her. According to her, she had turned down his request to visit him. But instead of backing off, the man sent her something unexpected—and it left social media users stunned.
A Bizarre Romantic Move
In the video she posted, the admirer—who is said to be Igbo—was seen speaking in his native language. He was sitting in his apartment, showing off carefully arranged bundles of naira notes. On his center table, there was just one item placed in front of the money: a red apple.
The apple, according to him, was a sign of hospitality. It was meant to stand in for the traditional kola nut, which is an important symbol of welcome in Igbo culture. He told her that was his offer if she ever decided to visit.
Internet Users React
As expected, the video spread quickly across Nigerian social media. Many people were amused, while others were shocked by the man’s unique way of courting a woman.
Some users called out the man for replacing kola nut with an apple, saying it was disrespectful to Igbo traditions. Others focused on his appearance, with some jokingly comparing him to movie villains or calling him names.
Here are some of the comments from the post:
- @Beautiful_distraction🥺😩💯: “See as he be like Nigerian Labubu 😭😂”
- @<3🥷🏼💕: “I talk say na Adam give Eve that apple.”
- @MartinaAnthony690: “This one be like upcoming ritualist 😩😩”
- @Jenny’s_signature: “Na Apple way Eve give Adam he wan give you back so 😂😂😂”
The Cultural Angle
In Igbo tradition, offering a guest a kola nut is a powerful act of peace, unity, and respect. Many people on social media felt the man’s use of an apple instead of a kola nut was a mockery of that tradition.
Still, others saw it as a creative, though weird, gesture. Some even joked that he might be trying to modernize the culture in his own way—with apples and cash.
Online Attention Grows
The lady didn’t just share the video; she also revealed the man’s face, something that drew even more attention. Some praised her for exposing him. Others criticized her, saying she shouldn’t have embarrassed him publicly.
Despite the backlash, the post kept attracting views and engagement. Many users took the opportunity to talk about the increasing pressure on women to respond to men’s advances, no matter how uncomfortable or bizarre they may be.
My Thought
This story has sparked plenty of conversation about dating in Nigeria, cultural respect, and how far people go for attention online. While some saw it as funny, others found it disturbing. One thing’s clear—the internet never forgets.
As the video continues to trend, Nigerians are still debating: was this romantic or ridiculous?
